Saturday, September 1, 2012

Find the Sweet Spot in the Change

I spend a lot of time thinking about change and why people (especially in education) resist change. I wonder about why we experience change as difficult.  I read books about it and gravitate to discussions about how to facilitate change, how to anticipate it and how to manage the new dynamics that it creates.

This is a year of change for me and for my school.  I have moved into a new administrative position and our beloved Director of Studies is preparing for his retirement in January of 2013.  My questions about change feel urgent to me right now.  There is no resistance to the change in this situation.  I am thrilled about my new position and our Director is happy to retire.  He looks forward to spending more time with his granddaughter, has plans to fix up his house and wants to become like one of those old men in the TD bank commercial who refuse to accept advice.  But despite the joy connected to this change, I am aware of my own fears, probably the culprit for recent sleepless nights.  Last night, ruminating about change, this occurred to me.  Allow me to draw you a mental picture.

You are standing with your back to the wall trying to look cool and carefree at the dance.  An attractive person crosses the floor and with irresistible style asks you to dance.  At that moment, for one second, you freeze.  You are a great dancer and everyone knows it.  He (or she) is exactly who you were hoping would ask you to dance.  So why freeze?  Hold this picture in your mind and consider this idea: change is an invitation to show yourself.  Change creates an empty space.  What once filled that space is gone and now, that space demands to be filled.  What will take its place? 

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Obviously dancing is my metaphor for the art and science of teaching.  We are passionate dancers (teachers) and we know our steps well.  When new dances come along, we learn the steps because dancing is exhilarating, life affirming and we do it so well.  So what to say to the dancer who hesitates, despite her (his) skill?  

Here is what I want to say to all the dancers: your talent and your passion for the craft is all you need to fill the space and accept the invitation.  You will not be perfect the first few times out on the floor but the thrill of the dance and the grace of the movements will renew your desire to become the best dancer you can be.  The sweet spot in the never ending change that is the educator’s life in the 21st century learning spaces is the knowledge that you can do this and you are talented.  Show yourself.  Step into the space that the invitation to change makes and have confidence that in time, you will become the graceful dancer that you know you are.

Our soon-to-retire Director of studies has had 32 years to perfect the art of change.  His ‘sweet spot’ is his dedication to the pursuit of excellence.  He knows that as long as he holds this pursuit as his goal, he will eventually be successful.  Mistakes are inevitable but his commitment to the pursuit of excellence has been his ‘sweet spot’ and the source of his graceful confidence throughout the years.  

Find your sweet spot and accept the invitation to the dance that never ends.  Show yourself.  You never looked so good.  

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